When interacting with others always regard whatever pleases and displeases yourself as the measure. Desire for others what your own ego desires and do not forget that whatever conduct displeases you will displease others. Read More
" Fethullah Gülen suggests that positive or negative reinforcement be proportional to the importance of the action. Parents should view the trust and love between themselves and the child as an important asset and help the child become aware of this view. Consequently, significant acts such as a violation of the trust should be dealt with proportionally, while insignificant acts should not merit immediate and severe consequences. This strategy, in the long run, will help establish the proper priorities in the child's mind. "